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Coparenting Processes in Military Parents Across the Deployment Cycle: Lessons from Afghanistan and Iraq
Purpose: The purpose of this presentation is to examine the processes involved in coparenting in a sample of recently returned service members and their spouses or partners who are caring for very young children. Little is known about how military parents maintain parent-child connections, communicate during deployment about their children, parenting concerns and challenges, or how care of young children is coordinated in the context of wartime deployment.
Methods: The current research draws upon data gathered to inform intervention development with military parents. Data collection included in-depth interviews, ranging from 60 to 120 minutes, with 70 service members (40) and spouses/partners (30) within one year of return from service in Afghanistan or Iraq. Over 90% of families were connected to the National Guard/Reserve. Trained interviewers followed a detailed guide with a focus on parenting and coparenting challenges, processes, and needs in relation to deployment separation and reunion. All interviews were audiorecorded and transcribed verbatim. Data were analyzed using thematic analysis (Braun & Clarke, 2006) in Atlas.ti.
Findings: Participants offered rich description of the multiple domains of coparenting throughout the deployment cycle, including the threats to caregiving imposed by deployment separation, war-related parental trauma, and reintegration realities. Parents also offered new insight into innovations and creative strategies for maintaining effective parenting and coparenting in wartime that can be applied to normative peacetime separations for military families and for civilian parents in other contexts.
Conclusions and Implications: Coparenting is an understudied but constant phenomenon for all parents. The lived experiences of these families in navigating coparenting during wartime suggest important avenues for future research and strategies for supporting the efforts of military parents.