Methods: This study utilized R, an open-source programming language for statistical computing to gather posts using the keyword search from within the SubReddit r/raisedbynarcissists an online platform dedicated to people whose parents are perceived as narcsissistic. This study followed thematic content analysis and methodological guidelines regarding obtaining data from Reddit and identifying specific extraction criteria. First a research question was developed. Second, the main content was chosen for analysis from a cache of any posts to the r/raisedbynarcissists subreddit containing the words “pregnancy” or “pregnant”. Third, the comment threads were evaluated for appropriateness to the research question. After reviewing, a total of 512 posts from the last 5 years (March 2018-2023) were included in the analysis. After familiarization with the comments, initial coding took place with an inductive approach. The codes were then separated into themes with all researchers’ consensus. Following that, the themes were refined into more relevant themes by comparing the themes to the entire data set as a whole.
Results: Several themes emerged from the thematic analysis of the Reddit comments. 1. This was all about them. 2. I want to be a mother my way. 3. Grief of becoming a mother experience. 4. My mental health is suffering.
Conclusions and Implications: The main outcome of the study was that those who perceived their parents as narcissists felt that their maternal mental health suffered due to the loss of key functions of matrescence: experiencing disrupted maternal role transition, loss of maternal competency and confidence, and loss of positive feelings associated with the role transition. These findings highlight the importance of addressing parental narcissism as a clinical topic when working with people experiencing perinatal mental health challenges.